Why Are People Acting Insane?
Why are people acting so crazy these days?
Because crazy behavior is becoming the new normal. In other words, what was clearly insane ten years ago is normal today.
And when the vote to make McCarthy speaker finally came nine months ago, McCarthy pushed on through fifteen votes to win the speakership. A feat of persistence that has only been equaled fifteen times in American History.
On the other hand, Kevin McCarthy was not a role model you would want to hold up to your kids. He was a coward. He had no principles. When mobs at the White House on January sixth were streaming down the hallways and trying to break into the chamber where Congress, including McCarthy, was meeting, McCarthy called Donald Trump and told him angrily, “they’re trying to f**ing kill me.” McCarthy demanded that Trump get his mobs to stop.
Three weeks later, McCarthy flew down to Mar-a-Lago and threw himself at Donald Trump’s feet. In other words, McCarthy had no character, no spine, no principles.
And Matt Gaetz, the congressman who toppled McCarthy from power, another man who may qualify as a toxic leader, swears that Kevin McCarthy is a liar.
What’s more, both men were being manipulated by yet another toxic leader, a leader who wanted to shut down the government and create chaos, Donald Trump.
What does this have to do with insane behaviors like the 513 mass shootings we’ve had this year?
A leader is a role model. People imitate what he or she does. This is why until 2016 we talked about holding our children up to the model set by the president. It’s why we tell our kids the story of George Washington and the cherry tree. And of little George’s statement to his father that, “I cannot tell a lie.”
We have two major presidential role models in American culture right now–Donald Trump and Joe Biden. Which one is toxic depends on your point of view.
Republicans will tell you that Joe Biden is senile and doddering, barely capable of remembering his name, that he is a puppet in the hands of shadowy figures, and that he is the leader of the Biden Crime Family.
On the other hand, Democrats will tell you that Donald Trump is a liar who the Washington Post says spouted over 30,000 outright fabrications while he was in the Oval Office and God-knows how many more lies since he’s left.
During the last few days, Trump has been attending his fraud case in a Manhattan courtroom and has been doing something forbidden by legal etiquette. He has been insulting the judge.
What’s worse, Trump, some say, runs the ultimate political crime family, a family that Forbes Magazine says raked in 2.4 billion dollars while Trump was in office.
Toxic behavior has a habit of trickling down. If the head of your society bullies others, you are more likely to bully those below you. If the head of your society unleashes his temper on others, you are more likely to unleash your temper on others, too. And if the head of your society is corrupt and skims money off the top for himself, you are more likely to become corrupt, too.
That’s why this form of leadership is called toxic. And that’s why people are acting in ways we used to view as insane.
In four years, President Trump made 30,573 false or misleading claims
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